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Originally Posted On: https://hosbeg.com/turn-up-the-heat-4-ways-to-spice-up-your-marriage/

Supposedly, you only need to have sex once a week to be sexually happy.

However, if you’re in a relationship rut, you may find that sex is not fulfilling and neither is your partnership.

Luckily, there are things couples can do to spice up their relationship (and they don’t necessarily involve swinging or opening up your relationship!)

Let’s take a look at just a few of the best ways you can bring some heat into your relationship and spice up your marriage.

1. Be Affectionate

Have you fallen out of the habit of holding hands or kissing in front of a romantic view as you once did when you were young?

You may be surprised by how much you can boost your desire for your partner by showing them little bouts of daily, regular affection.

We know that hugs can reduce the symptoms of anxiety and depression. So, make sure you cuddle up on the sofa in front of the TV or whenever you feel a little sad.

2. Try Out Sex Toys

Yes, it might be embarrassing to bring up the subject of sex toys with your partner for the first time. But, around 50% of couples are using sex toys to improve their sex lives.

Better yet, by bringing up the option of using a sex toy, you’ll start a dialogue about pleasure with your partner. This is a one way ticket to improving your orgasms!

After an orgasm, you’re going to get a dopamine hit which will make you more attracted to your partner and reignite that passion. Check out this adult shop.

3. Say Something Nice to Each Other Every Day

When you’ve been in a relationship for a long time, it’s easy to let irritations fester and for arguments to become the norm.

Before you say something negative to your partner, really try to bite your tongue. Get back into a habit of complimenting your loved one.

By learning how to talk to each other positively, you’re more likely to spark a romantic flame that results in a great sex. After all, we fancy people who fancy us so let your partner know that you think about them in a positive or sexual light.

4. Recreate Your First Date

Many couples pretend to be different people when they go out for a night out. This is worth trying with your partner!

However, role play can be a little intimidating if you’re not comfortable with acting. But, to help you feel more comfortable, why not first recreate your first date?

If you met in a book shop, then arrange to meet at this location separately. Did you then go to a bar for drinks? Do that! Chat like you did on your first date but make sure this one ends up in romantic sex.

These Tips Will Spice up Your Marriage but Don’t Stop Here!

After you’ve tried everything on this list, it’s time to come up with new ideas for how you want to spice up your marriage.

Perhaps this involves going on a date night and dressing up, or getting fit together, or maybe you want to try open relationships?

Hopefully, once you’ve implemented new ways of being with your partner, you’ll manage to reignite the flame! Check out the rest of the website for more tips!